Living with incontinence had me feeling completely isolated. It wasn’t just the physical symptoms; the social stigma around it weighed on me daily. I was scared to be far from a bathroom, and even going to work events or casual dinners with friends felt like a risk. When I was finally referred to Dr. Das, it was a huge relief. From our first conversation, I could tell he wasn’t just interested in treating the condition—he genuinely wanted to understand what I was going through. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I’m used to encountering doctors who don’t quite “get it,” but Dr. Das made me feel comfortable, respected, and like my experiences mattered.
After evaluating my options, he recommended InterStim therapy, explaining how it could give me back some control. What stood out was how clearly he explained the whole process, even down to what the trial period would involve, so I felt in control and fully informed before making a decision. He used inclusive language, didn’t make assumptions, and was completely respectful of my questions and concerns. I felt hopeful, knowing that I was in the hands of someone who not only had the expertise but also treated me as an individual with unique needs.
Just as I was getting ready for my InterStim procedure, I found out Dr. Das was moving to a new practice. When I called the UT office for details, I hit roadblocks at every turn. They wouldn’t tell me where he was going, instead offering me appointments with doctors I didn’t know or trust. I explained that I’d already discussed the plan in detail with Dr. Das and that I didn’t want to start over with someone new, especially not with such a sensitive health issue. The staff at UT seemed evasive and kept redirecting me, making me feel like they were intentionally trying to keep his patients from finding him.
After days of searching, I finally tracked down Dr. Das’s new practice, and it was the best decision I could’ve made. I noticed right away that some of his staff from UT had joined him in the transition, which gave me even more confidence that this was the right place. From the first call, the new office team was welcoming, prompt, and respectful. Suzanne, the scheduler who had moved from UT as well, remembered me and made the whole process feel familiar. She quickly found me an appointment and helped me transfer all the records, so there was no lag in my care.
When I arrived for my appointment, the atmosphere in Dr. Das’s new office was calm, organized, and friendly—such a contrast to the chaotic experience at UT. Dr. Das picked up right where we left off, checking in on how I’d been managing and making sure I was ready for the InterStim procedure. He was as patient and thorough as ever, answering my questions and reassuring me about the process. With his team, I felt supported and cared for; they were responsive, knowledgeable, and genuinely attentive. The sense of continuity in my care was incredible.
The InterStim procedure has been life-changing. I’ve regained a level of control that I hadn’t felt in years, and Dr. Das’s support throughout the journey made all the difference. Having him there, along with his staff who understand my background and needs, has given me such peace of mind. Dr. Das is a rare kind of doctor—someone who combines his expertise with true empathy and cultural awareness. He understands the specific challenges that LGBTQ+ patients often face, and he approaches his work without judgment, offering real solutions for what can feel like insurmountable problems.
For anyone facing sensitive health issues, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, I can’t recommend Dr. Das highly enough. He’s not only a skilled surgeon; he’s someone who respects and understands his patients. Finding him again after leaving UT was like reconnecting with a lifeline. If you’re searching for compassionate, inclusive care, Dr. Das and his team will make you feel seen and heard. I’m grateful every day to have found such an exceptional doctor who’s made such a huge impact on my life.