I am a psychologist offering individual therapy and same sex couples counseling that can help you feel good about yourself so you can have a more satisfying life with more meaningful relationships. Gay men often struggle with self-worth, anxiety, depression, isolation and exhaustion from self-criticism. Confusion about sexual orientation leaves us feeling alone and coming out can cause fear about the future and worry about what family and friends think. If you struggle with feeling good about yourself and positive about your future, I can help you work through the blocks that have stopped you from becoming the person you want to be. Growing up gay in a straight world causes most of us to experience homophobia and shame about being gay which lowers self-worth and the ability to get what you want in life, including a partner. You may doubt ever having a happy relationship because you keep choosing the wrong partners, your partner hooked-up with someone, there were conflicting sexual desires, fights weren’t resolved, or there was never an agreement on the rules for an open relationship. Gay couples counseling can help you to be closer to your partner and to move out of shame towards pride.