If you are looking for a therapist who understands complicated relationships, I’m that person! If you were harmed by your religious upbringing and struggle with internalized homophobia or family members who still can’t see how beautiful your queerness is, I can help! If you’re trying to navigate changing family dynamics and co-parenting with a former partner, I get it and I can help!

I’m Rebecca. I was raised in a very conservative religious community in a time when NO ONE was out. I got married to a man not knowing I’m lesbian because literally no one had ever asked me. I just didn’t know. I know from my own experience how challenging it can be to rediscover yourself later in life, to grapple with family who just can’t move from accepting to affirming, and to navigate shifts in family constellations that allow for parents to be their full selves while also centering the stability and care of kids.

I am an experienced couples therapist with the trauma therapy training required to help people heal from difficult childhoods that often accompany being queer in a family or religion that doesn’t have space for you. Online session available for people in the state of California. I also offer intensive therapy sessions in my office if you’d like to travel to CA to work with me.