Join me in nurturing a culture of Erotic Wholeness, in your life and in our wider world! Many know me from my groundbreaking work on Netflix’s Sex, Love & goop where I shared my trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach to somatic sex and intimacy education, working hands on and in with a queer couple. That same support is available to you too!

Women and non-binary females, whether seeking individual guidance or to explore with their partner(s) of any gender, are the focus of my practice, wherein, via ongoing in-person sessions at my Oakland, CA studio or hybrid immersions that combine video coaching and in-person intensives, you’re guided to embrace your erotic nature and thrive in your life and relationships. Think sex therapy, relationship coaching, trauma remediation and so much more! Online-based workshops and group journeys, self paced digital courses and occasional live events are also available.

Erotic Wholeness is a whole-self and uniquely relational approach to exploring the vast realms of intimate relationship, with yourself, your chosen beloveds and all your circles of belonging. Tuning into your embodied wisdom is a radical act in a world that demands we live in our heads. Here you will find compassionate, attuned, practical guidance to learn how to do exactly that, coupled with real sex education and relationship support vital for the experience of truly satisfying intimacy.

As to my own intersections of identity and relevant life experience, I am a white skinned, able bodied, straight passing, pansexual, queer, kinky cis-woman of Eastern European Jewish ancestry. My pronouns are she/her and I am equally comfortable with neutral they/them pronouns.

I have been married and divorced, in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships, am not a biological parent and am a very active auntie, biologically and chosen. My chosen family and intimate friendships mean as much to me as romantic partnerships.

I have lived a middle class life in liberal pockets of the United States, with significant chapters spent in both South America and Southeast Asia.
I am college educated and am generally conferred access to most spaces, places, resources, etc. with ease, even while some of my identities are also subject to marginalization and persecution.

I presently live on stolen Ohlone land and pay Shuumi land tax accordingly, in addition to supporting numerous other socially just, antiracist organizations with a percentage of my earnings.