Hi There, I’m Malory (she/her). As an attachment-based, sex-positive, and LGBTQIA+ & Kink/BDSM/Poly affirming therapist, I provide a safe, nonjudgmental therapy space. My clinical style is warm and compassionate. I believe you are the expert on yourself and your life. I will listen to understand, show sincere empathy, look for and validate your strengths, and work collaboratively with you.

Although we are inundated with cultural messaging about sex and relationships, most of us were not given the tools that allow us to connect to our partners or granted the space or permission to freely explore the depths of our sexual selves. Let’s change that. You deserve fulfilling relationships and an authentic intimate life.

I help individuals & couples/relationships throughout Washington and Idaho develop and nurture skills related to communication, sex & intimacy. I specialize in my work with relationships (married, dating, poly, ENM/CNM, SB/SD, FWB), sexual issues, LGBTQIA+ concerns, infidelity/affair/betrayal recovery, and discernment counseling (divorce/separation contemplation). In my book therapy is not one size fits all, and I tailor my approach to your needs integrating tools from Compassion-Focused Therapy, Attachment Theory, and Existential Psychotherapy.

I am committed to ongoing and up-to-date training in the sex therapy field and am a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional through the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute, a Kink Aware/Knowledgeable Professional through the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, and am currently pursuing Certification in Sex Therapy at Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. Through MSTI, I have received trainings relating to sexuality and aging, deconstructing purity culture, BDSM & stigma, developmental sexuality, male and female sexual dysfunction, intimacy skills, kink & BDSM, ABDL, the furry community/furry fandom, affair recovery, transition anxiety and trans issues.